Choosing the perfect elopement destination starts with knowing what kind of experience you want.
You’ve made the exciting, intentional decision to elope—maybe because you want a day that feels true to your relationship, maybe to reduce stress, or maybe because the idea of a crowded venue just isn’t your vibe. But now comes the big question:
Should we elope somewhere local or take the leap across the globe?
As a destination elopement photographer who has helped couples plan both stateside and international ceremonies, I’ve seen the magic—and the logistics—of both options. The truth is, there’s no wrong answer, but there is a right answer for you.
In this guide, we’ll break down the key differences, unique pros and cons, and questions to help you confidently choose between a domestic or international elopement.
What Is a Domestic Elopement?
A domestic elopement is when you get married within your home country, typically in a scenic or meaningful destination that doesn’t require international travel. Think about eloping in a national park (view “Choosing a National Park for Your Elopement” for ideas), a coastal town, a mountaintop lookout, or even a sentimental city you’ve always loved.
Examples:
Glacier National Park in Montana: check out Cody and Brooke’s sunrise Glacier elopement here.
Key West, Florida: check out Blake and Mar’s sailboat elopement here.
Big Sur, California
Seward, Alaska: check out Wolf and Ariel’s helicopter Alaska elopement here.
Your own backyard (yes, seriously!)
What Is an International Elopement?
An international elopement is when you travel outside your home country to tie the knot. Whether you’re dreaming of cliffside vows in Santorini, a castle ceremony in Scotland, or mountain views in Patagonia, this kind of elopement offers a blend of adventure, romance, and world exploration. If you’re curious about what it takes to plan one, check out this in-depth guide to eloping abroad for everything you need to know—from travel tips to legal logistics.
Examples:
Amalfi Coast, Italy: check out Lisa and Will’s all-day elopement here.
Bali, Indonesia
Isle of Skye: check out Dan and Val’s two-day adventure elopement here.
Iceland
Why Choose a Domestic Elopement?
Pros of Eloping Domestically:
Easier legal process: You don’t need to worry about foreign marriage laws, language barriers, or translation services.
Lower travel costs: Especially if you’re driving or taking a short flight.
Fewer logistics: No passports, currency conversions, or international insurance needed.
Familiar vendors & support systems: You can work with local or regional vendors you know and trust.
Faster planning timeline: Ideal if you’re working with a tighter schedule.
Possible Drawbacks:
Less of a “getaway” feel if it’s too close to home.
Fewer options for all-in-one packages or honeymoon experiences.
Popular locations may feel familiar or overdone if you’ve traveled there before.
Why Choose an International Elopement?
Pros of Eloping Internationally:
Dream destination experience: Say your vows on a Greek island, in a Japanese garden, or under the Northern Lights.
Built-in honeymoon: Start your adventure right after (or even during) your ceremony.
Unique, unforgettable memories: Fewer couples can say they got married at a medieval château or a black sand beach.
Culture & cuisine: Incorporate food, traditions, and scenery from a place you love or have always wanted to explore.
Possible Drawbacks:
More complex logistics: From visas and travel insurance to time zones and currency exchanges.
Legal recognition challenges: Some countries require a residency period, paperwork translations, or additional processing.
Language barriers: Communication with vendors may be tricky without a translator or bilingual planner.
Higher cost potential: Flights, accommodations, and vendor travel fees can add up quickly.
How to Decide What’s Right for You
There’s no universal answer—but there is a best fit based on your values, vision, and vibe.
Ask yourselves:
Do we want to combine our wedding with our honeymoon?
What’s our comfort level with travel logistics and paperwork?
Do we feel more excited about epic landscapes or cozy, local spots?
Will any guests be joining, and how far are they willing to travel?
What kind of scenery, culture, and energy do we want to be surrounded by?
If you’re torn, consider a hybrid approach: Get legally married at home, then plan an international elopement-style vow renewal or symbolic ceremony abroad!
Unique Elopement Ideas for Each Option
Domestic Elopement Ideas:
Hike to a remote lookout and exchange vows at sunrise
Rent a cozy A-frame cabin or treehouse for the weekend
Include a mini road trip or campout in your itinerary
Choose a weekday to have popular parks all to yourselves
International Elopement Ideas:
Plan a ceremony around a cultural festival or seasonal event
Elope somewhere with personal or ancestral significance
Book a boutique hotel that handles elopement planning in-house
Incorporate local traditions, like a tea ceremony or handfasting ritual
Your Elopement, Your Rules
Whether you’re chasing waterfalls in Oregon or writing vows beneath the cliffs of Cinque Terre, what matters most is that your elopement feels like you. There’s no wrong way to get married—only the way that fits your relationship, your story, and your sense of adventure.
Take a deep breath, dream big, and let your heart lead the way.